Assessments

Assessments help you and your partner identify strengths as well as areas for growth throughout your marriage journey. Here is a collection of some of my favorites.

How well do you know your partner?

After extensive research for over four decades with thousands of couples, we’ve found that one of the most important components of a successful relationship is the quality of friendship between partners. And that requires knowing your partner’s likes, dislikes, needs, desires, beliefs, fears, and life dreams.

So, how well do you really know your partner? Take our free quiz below to find out.

Want to know what’s really going on?

Tired of getting into arguments? Fighting about the same things over and over? Not sure what the problem really is? Or maybe you just want to learn more about the state of your partnership?

The Gottman Assessment, powered by the renowned, research-based Gottman Method, can help you finally understand what’s going on in your relationship - and get you the help you need to improve it.

How Strong is Our Friendship?

The foundation of a happy healthy marriage is a strong friendship. See how strong your friendship is.

Marriage Satisfaction Scale

How satisfied are you in your marriage? Complete this brief scale to help you determine where you stand in your relationship satisfaction.

How aligned are our values? Do we know what we value individually and as a couple? Evaluate your alignment to help you understand yourself, your partner and your dynamic better.

Values Alignment Assessment

Relationship Attunement Assessment

Attunement is essential in healthy marriages. Evaluate your level of attunement to each other. 

Repairing during and after conflict strengthens your bond and deepens trust. Take a moment to reflect—how well do you offer and receive repair attempts in your relationship?

Repair Attempt Effectiveness Assessment

This assessment gives you valuable insight into key relationship patterns—Accessibility, Responsiveness, and Engagement. By taking it, you're making an important first step toward a deeper, more emotionally secure connection with your partner.

How Emotionally Secure is our Relationship?

Trust is the heart of a strong, lasting relationship. This quick assessment will help you explore how secure and supported you feel with your partner. Ready to dive in?

Gottman Trust Assessment